OWC: Satisfy your wife, even when you don’t feel like it

(The Malay Mail) – Husbands have to give in to their wives’ sexual desires even if they do not feel like it so that their wives do not look for other “avenues” to fulfill their needs.

This was the opinion of the Obedient Wives Club (OWC) president Fauziah Ariffin who said ignoring the sexual needs of wives may be a reason for straying husbands.

Fauziah was responding to the recently released Durex Sexual Well-Being Global Survey 2011 report which stated Malaysian women play the infidelity game more than Malaysian men.

The survey revealed 33 per cent of Malaysian men and 39 per cent of Malaysian women confessed to cheating on their spouses.

It also categorised Malaysians as third among 36 nationalities for being the most unfaithful partners.

“As a wife, you have to sacrifice by giving in to your husbands’ sexual needs even if you are not in the mood for it. Likewise, the husbands have to do the same thing. It works both ways and ensures spouses are faithful to one another,” Fauziah told The Malay Mail yesterday.

Fauziah also opined the reason women cheat may depend on the reason why they got married in the first place.

“If the reason is love, then the woman is more likely to cheat on her husband. The first and foremost reason for getting married should be the fear of God.

“It is a command (sunnah) under Islamic law to get married because of the fear of God and that should be the driving force behind every marriage.

“If you love God, you will love your partner and won’t think of straying,” she said.

Fauziah said she encourages couples to prep themselves with good religious background before tying the knot.